In the last few days the media has shared a barrage of discourteous behaviors ranging from politicians, musicians, to sports figures. These high profile examples remind us of the need to practice civility in our daily life no matter how passionate we are about our causes. Hurting another human being is the primary outcome of the lack of civility. Moreover, look at the personal and community consequences of bad behavior… countless unproductive hours trying to repair public image, economic boycotts, losing game, penalties, loss of fans… and most of all respect. Whether online or in person, business or personal life, no matter what subject civility wins in the end; otherwise karma is a…
P.M. Forni's provides 25 Rules and examples from his book Choosing Civility: The Twenty-five Rules of Considerate Conduct:
1. Pay attention
2. Acknowledge others
3. Think the best
4. Listen
5. Be inclusive
6. Speak kindly
7. Don't speak ill
8. Accept and give praise
9. Respect even a subtle "no"
10. Respect others' opinions
11. Mind your body
12. Be agreeable
13. Keep it down (and rediscover silence)
14. Respect other people's time
15. Respect other people's space
16. Apologize earnestly
17. Assert yourself
18. Avoid personal questions
19. Care for your guests
20. Be a considerate guest
21. Think twice before asking for favors
22. Refrain from idle complaints
23. Accept and give constructive criticism
24. Respect the environment and be gentle
25. Don't shift responsibility and blame
